Undo..
i got it and i like the general tone of what you are saying..
way back when i read about the group soul thing and seth i wasn't happy and it took me a long time to digest such a thing .. but then i started to work on myself thur regression for some of what i felt were my 'questions and problem areas'.. at the time the general thought was that if you could go back and see the cause of the current problem and forgive yourself or whomever
that the questions would be answerd and the phobias lessened or dismissed
so i was operating under those thoughts.. and it worked.. maybe because of those thoughts..
it didn't matter because it really helped
thru my living i have had painful things happened and learnt to forgive stuff..but was still having some issues.. i finally got it to forgive me...that wasn't the easiest but it is doable
the method of saying that you loved yourself while looking in the mirror was a real test but
that also helped me to move forward another little step
my current mantra which i have put here more than once is
"I bless and release the reason for ? ? ?" (this situation..whatever it is)..but you need to be convinced that you are blessing and releasing the cause for it to work
but
work it does
one of my other mantra's is from an old book by louise hay
and it is
we are all victims of victims and when we know better we do betterit's a great bit of verbage to seeing others in a kinder light
so ..yeah i see and agree to your point
hugs all around
edit.. the ususal.. to correct speeling..sigh